Comments on: Its All Her Fault http://blog.shashwati.com/2005/09/08/its-all-her-fault/ Shashwati Talukdar's Musings Sat, 22 Nov 2008 13:22:10 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5 By: rameshraju http://blog.shashwati.com/2005/09/08/its-all-her-fault/#comment-553 rameshraju Sat, 22 Nov 2008 09:29:19 +0000 http://blog.shashwati.com/?p=166#comment-553 'Women empowerment' has increased unemployement to a very large extent. However It is a very auspicious change that women are competing with men and proving themselves in various fields. In one way their status has raised up. On other side, western fashion is degrading the status of women. It is one of the factors that has prevented men to respect and worship women. Fashion has projected women like a sexual object in media and in business. There is a college by name Villa Marie Women's College beside our company in Hyderabad. I have seen many tomboyish girls dressed with low-hip jeans, low neck tops, mini skirts etc. In what way they gain respect? Are they secured in these attires? To be precise, they say that those sexually arousing costumes to be comfortable to them. One of the girls said that it is a fashion to display underwear slightly. A women in her saree appears like a goddess or angel, but in her tight-jeans, she appears like a babe or sexual item. For women, the fashion is regulated is not only along the lines of social distinction, but also along the lines of sexuality. Infact fashion is a devil that is bring down women. So Women should dress modestly. Vedas say that If a Woman is the soil, Man is the Seed, the growth of the Seed depends on the Soil. ‘Women empowerment’ has increased unemployement to a very large extent. However It is a very auspicious change that women are competing with men and proving themselves in various fields. In one way their status has raised up. On other side, western fashion is degrading the status of women. It is one of the factors that has prevented men to respect and worship women. Fashion has projected women like a sexual object in media and in business. There is a college by name Villa Marie Women’s College beside our company in Hyderabad. I have seen many tomboyish girls dressed with low-hip jeans, low neck tops, mini skirts etc. In what way they gain respect? Are they secured in these attires? To be precise, they say that those sexually arousing costumes to be comfortable to them. One of the girls said that it is a fashion to display underwear slightly.
A women in her saree appears like a goddess or angel, but in her tight-jeans, she appears like a babe or sexual item. For women, the fashion is regulated is not only along the lines of social distinction, but also along the lines of sexuality. Infact fashion is a devil that is bring down women. So Women should dress modestly. Vedas say that If a Woman is the soil, Man is the Seed, the growth of the Seed depends on the Soil.

]]> By: rameshraju http://blog.shashwati.com/2005/09/08/its-all-her-fault/#comment-545 rameshraju Tue, 18 Nov 2008 10:24:43 +0000 http://blog.shashwati.com/?p=166#comment-545 One who abuse a woman who wears provoking attires is not idioc. Because the dirty tomboyish attires are absolutely seducing men to commit crimes. Dress code also plays a part in increasing criminal thoughts in a person. It is not the fault of one who is provoked, but it is the fault of one who provokes. Today girls feel that it is a fashion to wear costumes that seduce men. I suppose, if the total freedom is given, the girls of tomorrow would roam on the roads in birthday suits. Know your gender, Respect your Country's tradition. Any man feels a traditional woman as goddess, and a woman wearing pants as a babe. There is a saying "A Fox has burnt stripes on its skin, after looking at the stripes of a Tiger". In the same way girls are accepting tomboyish attires, leaving their feminity behind. Manusmrithi of Mahabharata said that women bring disgrace to the generations if they are left independent. What Eve did in the Holy Bible? How was Sita abducted in Ramayana? However for an Indian woman skin texture, Saree or Salwar suits better rather than seducing tomboyish attires. Traditional dress code reveals the gender. It also preserves the respect in the society. One who abuse a woman who wears provoking attires is not idioc. Because the dirty tomboyish attires are absolutely seducing men to commit crimes. Dress code also plays a part in increasing criminal thoughts in a person. It is not the fault of one who is provoked, but it is the fault of one who provokes. Today girls feel that it is a fashion to wear costumes that seduce men. I suppose, if the total freedom is given, the girls of tomorrow would roam on the roads in birthday suits. Know your gender, Respect your Country’s tradition. Any man feels a traditional woman as goddess, and a woman wearing pants as a babe. There is a saying “A Fox has burnt stripes on its skin, after looking at the stripes of a Tiger”. In the same way girls are accepting tomboyish attires, leaving their feminity behind. Manusmrithi of Mahabharata said that women bring disgrace to the generations if they are left independent. What Eve did in the Holy Bible? How was Sita abducted in Ramayana? However for an Indian woman skin texture, Saree or Salwar suits better rather than seducing tomboyish attires. Traditional dress code reveals the gender. It also preserves the respect in the society.

]]> By: admin http://blog.shashwati.com/2005/09/08/its-all-her-fault/#comment-544 admin Fri, 14 Nov 2008 07:29:21 +0000 http://blog.shashwati.com/?p=166#comment-544 Leaving the above comment as an illustration of the idiocy of someone who admits they abuse women for wearing pants, and says my name wrong. Leaving the above comment as an illustration of the idiocy of someone who admits they abuse women for wearing pants, and says my name wrong.

]]> By: rameshraju http://blog.shashwati.com/2005/09/08/its-all-her-fault/#comment-535 rameshraju Wed, 05 Nov 2008 09:40:40 +0000 http://blog.shashwati.com/?p=166#comment-535 There is no mysogeny in my argument. In Hindu tradition, girls are embodiments of a family's honour and pride. Women have the power to build up or ruin a society. Generally women are respected in their traditional attires. They loose respect if they wear low hip jeans, tight jeans, mini tops etc, as their anatomy can be visualized by men easily. It is the not the fault of the provoked, but it is the fault of the one who provokes. It is a natural phenomenon that Men are attracted to women's beauty, Women are attracted to Men's guts and wits. Remember that women are being measured in terms of beauty since ancient times. Fashion should not exceed beyond the limits of one's tradition. As long as women preserve the traditions, a nation or society will not be ruined. Self-confidence and guts do not depend on the attire you wear, it depends on the type of the mind you have. If is a fact that respect also depends on the attire you wear. For example, I respect women who wear traditional attires, and I abuse who wear tomboyish attires. Once I have seen a tomboy wearing low hip jeans, such that her underwear is seen. No real man would respect a tomboy. I think Saraswathi is a name of educational goddess. Its good to have such name. Bearing that name, It is strange that you are protesting against the dress code! There is no mysogeny in my argument. In Hindu tradition, girls are embodiments of a family’s honour and pride. Women have the power to build up or ruin a society. Generally women are respected in their traditional attires. They loose respect if they wear low hip jeans, tight jeans, mini tops etc, as their anatomy can be visualized by men easily. It is the not the fault of the provoked, but it is the fault of the one who provokes. It is a natural phenomenon that Men are attracted to women’s beauty, Women are attracted to Men’s guts and wits. Remember that women are being measured in terms of beauty since ancient times. Fashion should not exceed beyond the limits of one’s tradition. As long as women preserve the traditions, a nation or society will not be ruined. Self-confidence and guts do not depend on the attire you wear, it depends on the type of the mind you have. If is a fact that respect also depends on the attire you wear. For example, I respect women who wear traditional attires, and I abuse who wear tomboyish attires. Once I have seen a tomboy wearing low hip jeans, such that her underwear is seen. No real man would respect a tomboy. I think Saraswathi is a name of educational goddess. Its good to have such name. Bearing that name, It is strange that you are protesting against the dress code!

]]> By: Stephanie http://blog.shashwati.com/2005/09/08/its-all-her-fault/#comment-488 Stephanie Sat, 20 Sep 2008 20:25:27 +0000 http://blog.shashwati.com/?p=166#comment-488 Goodness, I can not believe the guys are just trying to get off by saying, she tempted me. It really is all about their state of mind. People just need to accept that some people have it on their mind and some don't. The normals don't and that is what makes them normal. Goodness, I can not believe the guys are just trying to get off by saying, she tempted me. It really is all about their state of mind. People just need to accept that some people have it on their mind and some don’t. The normals don’t and that is what makes them normal.

]]> By: rameshraju http://blog.shashwati.com/2005/09/08/its-all-her-fault/#comment-367 rameshraju Mon, 05 May 2008 07:13:40 +0000 http://blog.shashwati.com/?p=166#comment-367 It is good to implement dress code system for students when visiting the religious temples. This is because the some girls are coming to the temples with extremely seducing western outfits like tight jeans and mini tops. These outfits are provoking men to commit crimes and rapes. This is quite against Hindu tradition and customs. These explicit outfits are making them to loose respect and security in the society. What if the all Hindu goddesses throw off their Sarees and wear explicit outfits? Absolutely they loose respect. Indian girls are ruining the Indian tradition and culture utterly. It is strange that the tomboyish girls are protesting against the dress code implementation at temples and colleges. They are forgetting that they are females! Fancy that they say “we are very comfortable with the western outfits!” If they are given complete freedom, they would go to temples in complete nude. The fact is that women are quickly tempted to any social change, even much faster than men. It is so strange that when men are wearing same pants and shirts since the ages together, women have now started wearing tomboyish clothes, leaving Punjabi and dignified Sarees behind. These barbaric behaviors of the tomboyish girls lead to the birth of dress code implementation in colleges, schools and in temples. A society devoid of traditions and customs is damned forever; and a society in which women do not follow any tradition and culture, will be ruined. Women have the power to build or destroy a family, a society or a country. They should remember that purity /holiness refers not only to the heart, but to every attitude. Indian Women should preserve their purity and nobility so that they are respected and adored as goddesses. They have misconception that the men are treating them inferior. Nowadays women are given more than 35% of reservation in employments, holding 100% equal economic rights, holding good political portfolios, protected by many judicial laws etc. What else they want still now? It is good to implement dress code system for students when visiting the religious temples. This is because the some girls are coming to the temples with extremely seducing western outfits like tight jeans and mini tops. These outfits are provoking men to commit crimes and rapes. This is quite against Hindu tradition and customs. These explicit outfits are making them to loose respect and security in the society.

What if the all Hindu goddesses throw off their Sarees and wear explicit outfits? Absolutely they loose respect. Indian girls are ruining the Indian tradition and culture utterly. It is strange that the tomboyish girls are protesting against the dress code implementation at temples and colleges. They are forgetting that they are females! Fancy that they say “we are very comfortable with the western outfits!” If they are given complete freedom, they would go to temples in complete nude.

The fact is that women are quickly tempted to any social change, even much faster than men. It is so strange that when men are wearing same pants and shirts since the ages together, women have now started wearing tomboyish clothes, leaving Punjabi and dignified Sarees behind. These barbaric behaviors of the tomboyish girls lead to the birth of dress code implementation in colleges, schools and in temples. A society devoid of traditions and customs is damned forever; and a society in which women do not follow any tradition and culture, will be ruined.

Women have the power to build or destroy a family, a society or a country. They should remember that purity /holiness refers not only to the heart, but to every attitude. Indian Women should preserve their purity and nobility so that they are respected and adored as goddesses. They have misconception that the men are treating them inferior. Nowadays women are given more than 35% of reservation in employments, holding 100% equal economic rights, holding good political portfolios, protected by many judicial laws etc. What else they want still now?

]]> By: JASMEEN http://blog.shashwati.com/2005/09/08/its-all-her-fault/#comment-132 JASMEEN Tue, 20 Dec 2005 18:37:13 +0000 http://blog.shashwati.com/?p=166#comment-132 two things must be done immediately 1. collect dress code rules from as many colleges all over india as possible and get in touch with us at blanknoise@gmail.com . 2. collect all types of clothes worn by various poeple/ participants who have experienced street sexual harassment / eve teased/ raped. we must be able to put this collective together and ask again...who is asking for what//?!! what is asking for it?! two things must be done immediately

1. collect dress code rules from as many colleges all over india as possible and get in touch with us at blanknoise@gmail.com .

2. collect all types of clothes worn by various poeple/ participants who have experienced street sexual harassment / eve teased/ raped. we must be able to put this collective together and ask again…who is asking for what//?!! what is asking for it?!

]]> By: vivek http://blog.shashwati.com/2005/09/08/its-all-her-fault/#comment-133 vivek Mon, 19 Dec 2005 13:48:43 +0000 http://blog.shashwati.com/?p=166#comment-133 dress code, prohibition of mobiles and other regulations are some kind of nazi activites. there is lot of similar nonsense in ANNA UNIVERSITY. a) The authorities ban vechicles inside the campus because of pollution (noise, air and so on) there exemption for Staff vechicles and those make a visit to tennis court and etc, because they run on H2O and hence no pollution b) there exists a playground, where no one allowed to walk! and will be penalised for playing games. c) exams are another funny things. One of my classmate used to score like this 8+42, 5+45 and so on. internal+external >= 50 to pass. if he score less in internal since that subject is tough game and he is poor on that subject, he will score more in external exams, which is impossible because externals are tougher than internal exams. then how is that possible??? d) One of our lecturer used to give syllabus and which book covers that and end of the session he declared as the syllabus was over. e) Very old and poor syllabus for lot of papers. f) for this semester we got three Ph.Ds for a single lab (No work and Full pay) and no more doctors for any other paper( where we need a good professor) Also we got a non-post graduate for a paper. g) In one of my semester I had a programming language lab. they taught C, without pointers, structures and other important aspects like embedded C. Then what is the use of that lab??? h) Lot of corruption in purchasing For example one of equipment purchased in electrical lab(DC and AC drive trainer module in cica'94) was never installed. instead of his moral policing! He should concentrate on academic issues like improving syllabus, providing better education and so on. He can also think of reducing fees so that lot of less privileged people will get better education dress code, prohibition of mobiles and other regulations are some kind of nazi activites.
there is lot of similar nonsense in ANNA UNIVERSITY.
a) The authorities ban vechicles inside the campus because of pollution (noise, air and so on)
there exemption for Staff vechicles and those make a visit to tennis court and etc, because they run on H2O and hence no pollution
b) there exists a playground, where no one allowed to walk! and will be penalised for playing games.
c) exams are another funny things. One of my classmate used to score like this 8+42, 5+45 and so on. internal+external >= 50 to pass. if he score less in internal since that subject is tough game and he is poor on that subject, he will score more in external exams, which is impossible because externals are tougher than internal exams. then how is that possible???
d) One of our lecturer used to give syllabus and which book covers that and end of the session he declared as the syllabus was over.
e) Very old and poor syllabus for lot of papers.
f) for this semester we got three Ph.Ds for a single lab (No work and Full pay) and no more doctors for any other paper( where we need a good professor) Also we got a non-post graduate for a paper.
g) In one of my semester I had a programming language lab. they taught C, without pointers, structures and other important aspects like embedded C. Then what is the use of that lab???
h) Lot of corruption in purchasing For example one of equipment purchased in electrical lab(DC and AC drive trainer module in cica’94) was never installed.

instead of his moral policing! He should concentrate on academic issues like improving syllabus, providing better education and so on.
He can also think of reducing fees so that lot of less privileged people will get better education

]]> By: surya http://blog.shashwati.com/2005/09/08/its-all-her-fault/#comment-134 surya Wed, 02 Nov 2005 09:22:43 +0000 http://blog.shashwati.com/?p=166#comment-134 People who are chauvinists generally are involved in eveteasing or in some other unfortunate incidents. So its about the thought procedure ,which should change in India if women are to take a stand in the society. People who are chauvinists generally are involved in eveteasing or in some other unfortunate incidents. So its about the thought procedure ,which should change in India if women are to take a stand in the society.

]]> By: surya http://blog.shashwati.com/2005/09/08/its-all-her-fault/#comment-135 surya Wed, 02 Nov 2005 09:19:28 +0000 http://blog.shashwati.com/?p=166#comment-135 Actually the incidents of rapes etc are ocurring due to some other resaons but not due to the dress code. Lets take a person who has criminal thoughts in his brain, he would commit a rape even if the girl is wearing a chudidar or else jeans. Its not bout the dress its all about the mind status. Actually the incidents of rapes etc are ocurring due to some other resaons but not due to the dress code. Lets take a person who has criminal thoughts in his brain, he would commit a rape even if the girl is wearing a chudidar or else jeans. Its not bout the dress its all about the mind status.

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